It's time to be real and really connect!
Stop:
getting stuck in the same conflicts and repeating the same frustrating patterns.
Start:
understanding what’s really going on…
responding in healthier ways…
and finally enjoying peaceful relationships focused on solutions.
Fix the Disconnect
Do you wake up immediately frustrated because of that last disagreement?
Maybe you come home at night and sit by yourself on the couch because it’s easier than the potential conflict, but inside you’re stewing over the last conflict and the fact that it didn’t get resolved the way you wanted.
Why do you always feel like you’re the only one putting effort into it and no one else seems to care?
If this sounds familiar, it’s time for you to sign up for my Fix the Disconnect session and understand why so many of your normal conversations turn into arguments.
You’ll learn why your relationships don’t have the depth you want and why you keep asking yourself, “Am I pushing people away?”…all in under an hour.
How it works: You’ll answer a series of important questions about your relationship struggles and then hop on a 45 minute virtual call with me to discuss what’s actually going on. We’ll make a tailored plan to fix it and at the end of our time together, you’ll know:
- Exactly what’s tripping you up in relationships
- Specific steps to begin repairing damaged relationships or clear up misunderstandings
- Key insights for connecting with different personality types
STOP FEELING STUCK IN DISCONNECTION
Do you wake up with nagging thoughts of relationship struggles, wondering why it always feels like everyone is mad at you?
Or maybe you can’t stand the thought of going to that next family thing and being fake just to get along…
Maybe you’ve tried everything—research, advice, even trial and error—and still don’t have the answers you need…
Why can’t you just have peace and rest instead of all the tension?
Want to change the way you interact with others so you never have to feel fake and disconnected?
Learn Your Story
Learn: Know Yourself
You’ll discover your Enneagram type, its hidden patterns, motivations, and coping strategies that lead to negative self-talk and unhealthy actions.
In other words, you’ll see how your personality type affects the way you think, feel, and act… (without you even being aware of it) and hinder your relationships.
We’ll address those gremlins that show up when you are waking up in the morning, tempting you to dwell on self-doubt, anger, hurt, or frustration. You’ll begin to understand what truly makes you you.
This is the first step to real connection in your relationships.
Love: See With Compassion
It is essential that you begin to view your story through a grace-filled lens rather than shame or criticism.
We’ll address both self-compassion and greater compassion for others. Instead of being so hard on yourself, comparing yourself to others, and wishing you had their traits or abilities, you’ll learn to give yourself grace and love the person you were made to be.
You’ll also naturally gain more compassion for others, as you see the different ways each Enneagram type views the world. Instead of dreading those tense family get-togethers, you’ll actually be excited to meet up, talk, and laugh over dinner. You won’t feel like being fake is the only way to get along.
The pillar of compassion will ensure you stay connected.
Live: Align With the Truth
Finally, you will learn to identify where you’ve been living out of false beliefs and start aligning with who you are meant to be.
You’ll start seeing real change in the areas you’ve struggled the most by developing healthier ways of thinking and responding under pressure. And you’ll realize some of those areas you may have thought were weaknesses are actually strengths.
As you take time to reflect with your journal and a quiet moment to yourself, you’ll begin to see your life with more purpose and feel more grounded, known, and valued for who you are.
This is the evidence that transformation has started taking place.
Stage 1: Learn Your Story
Get on the path to real connection. Twelve sessions, 45 minutes each. We’ll work together each week on your personal struggles so you can finally be free to really be yourself. Schedule a free session to get started.
Gospel centered Enneagram coaching: Understand yourself, others, & God
If you prefer a faith-based approach, I offer coaching that integrates biblical truth with Enneagram insight to help you grow in self-awareness, relationships, and your walk with God.
A Gospel-centered focus can be added to any coaching program at no additional cost. However, my VIP option is only available to clients who choose a gospel-centered focus.
VIP Package Option
Get additional support through your journey by choosing the VIP option. Here’s what’s included:
- 2 Additional Sessions
- Priority Scheduling and 6 additional months to use all sessions
- Voxer – Enjoy private, on-the-go voice and text support between sessions through the Voxer app. Ask questions, share updates, or talk through challenges in real time…like having a coach in your pocket.
- Customized Book Package: One Step Closer Bible, leather journal, The Gospel for Enneagram (your Type), Breath as Prayer
Learn Your Story - For Couples
Ready to really transform your relationship? These twelve 90-minute sessions are designed just for couples. You’ll discover your Enneagram types together, unlock deeper insights into each other’s personalities, and learn how to communicate, connect, and grow stronger as a team. You’ll explore the unique strengths and challenges you each bring to the relationship—and how to create even more harmony and understanding. Give me a call and we’ll work out the best plan for your relationship.
Stage 2: Love Your Story
This is level 2 in your journey. After you’ve completed Learn Your Story, continue your personal journey and start really loving your story.
Stage 3: Live Your Story
This is level 3 in your journey. After you’ve completed the other two levels, continue the process of really living your story.
My Learn Love Live Guarantee: If you don’t find exceptional value in these coaching sessions, you can choose to stop at any time and I’ll refund any unused sessions.
WHAT MY CLIENTS ARE SAYING...
I’m so grateful for the time and care that Lacy gave me during our Enneagram work together. She didn’t just help me discover my personality type she truly walked alongside me as I explored some deeper personal issues. Her insight, patience, and gentle guidance made me feel safe and understood. I never felt rushed, she asked the kinds of questions that helped me to open up and understand myself a little better. If you’re looking for someone who brings both wisdom and heart to the Enneagram, I can’t recommend her enough.
— Connie (Type 6)
I found out so much about myself and how I think. I am more confident in my relationships and was so amazed at Lacy’s knowledge of how people get along and what makes people react to each other in positive ways. If you’re thinking about coaching with Lacy…do it! She is so amazing and such a great help in understanding yourself.
— Gail (Type 3)
Lacy is very kind, knowledgeable, and easy to talk with. I learned things about myself I’ve not explored with a regular counselor. Now I recognize the patterns in my personality that lead to anxiety and know the security my Heavenly Father offers me. This helps me be a better wife, mother, and friend.
— Alicia (Type 6)
The Learn Your Story program, led by Lacy, has really helped me examine my own personality (both the positive and negative experiences) and how the Lord has used each of those, all together, for His purposes. It is an extreme comfort to know that He has created us and that we are each unique. (God gifts us with our own individual personalities, blessings, etc.) During the course and through conversations with Lacy, it was very helpful to reflect on all these truths using the worksheets she provided. If we can understand ourselves and our relationships, then we can come even closer to Jesus and better fulfill His purposes, which He accomplishes through us!
— Susan (Type 2)